{"id":371,"date":"2026-11-04T20:00:49","date_gmt":"2026-11-04T20:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=371"},"modified":"2026-11-04T20:00:49","modified_gmt":"2026-11-04T20:00:49","slug":"dert-ortagi-2005-06","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=371","title":{"rendered":"Anlayacak Olan Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Anlayaca\u011f\u0131 Kadar Anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-32efe032 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=139\">\u2190 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 T\u00fcm say\u0131lar<\/a><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Haziran 2005<\/strong> \u00b7 Ekin Dergisi \u00b7 Say\u0131 102 \u00b7 Sayfa 63\u201365<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bu tarih\u00ee metin, bas\u0131l\u0131 sayfalardan okunabilir bi\u00e7imde aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00f6nemin anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri korunmu\u015f, tekrar eden dergi duyurular\u0131 aktar\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Orijinal sayfalar a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dad\u0131r.<\/em><\/p><h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-xx-large-font-size\">Anlayacak Olan Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Anlayaca\u011f\u0131 Kadar Anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r<\/h1><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yazan: Emin \u00d6zel<\/strong><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"1117\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-840.webp\" alt=\"EminAbi \u2014 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 yazar\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-161\" style=\"width:180px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-840.webp 840w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-350.webp 350w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-hersteld.webp 1087w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\">EminAbi \u00b7 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u00b7 Orijinal sayfa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00dc\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131m. Ekin Dergisi arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla o yandan bu yana hep birilerine bir \u015feyler anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m. \u00d6rneklerle ve atas\u00f6zleri e\u015fli\u011finde birilerine bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011fretmek istedim. Asl\u0131nda bu birileri hepimizdik. Sadece Ali veya Veli de\u011fil, b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczd\u00fck.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bazen \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fck, bazen sevindik ama her defas\u0131nda d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck. Bu olanlar ni\u00e7in olmu\u015ftu ve bu olanlardan nas\u0131l ders \u00e7\u0131karabilirdik? Nas\u0131l daha iyiye ve nas\u0131l g\u00fczelliklere kavu\u015fabilirdik?<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekle de kalmad\u0131k. Fikirlerimizi payla\u015ft\u0131k. Gerek k\u00f6\u015fe yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131, gerekse \u0130nternet sitemizdeki ziyaret\u00e7ilerin yaz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 uzun uzad\u0131ya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015ft\u00fck, tart\u0131\u015ft\u0131k ve inceledik. Haf\u0131zam\u0131z\u0131 bir kez daha yenilemek i\u00e7in ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131l i\u00e7erisindeki baz\u0131 yaz\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n \u00f6zetini s\u0131ralad\u0131k. K\u0131saca baz\u0131 konulara tekrar de\u011finmek istedik.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Umar\u0131m ge\u00e7ti\u011fim \u00fc\u00e7 y\u0131l i\u00e7erisinde birilerine faydal\u0131 olmu\u015f ve baz\u0131lar\u0131na da gereken mesajlar\u0131 verebilmi\u015fimdir.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hepinize g\u00f6sterdi\u011finiz ilgi i\u00e7in te\u015fekk\u00fcr eder, son s\u00f6z\u00fcmle ho\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n derim:<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat\u0131n\u0131z Karard\u0131\u011f\u0131 An, Y\u00fcre\u011finizdeki Par\u0131lt\u0131y\u0131 Aray\u0131n!<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Emin \u00d6zel<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Besle Kargay\u0131, Oysun G\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc (Ekim 2003)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Baz\u0131 insanlar\u0131m\u0131z hi\u00e7 kusur hata kabul etmezken, baz\u0131lar\u0131 da kusuru ve hatay\u0131 hep kendinde bulur. En do\u011frusu orta yoldur. Hem kendinizi ele\u015ftireceksiniz, hem de kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini. Varsa bir hatan\u0131z kabulleneceksiniz, ama kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdaki bir karga misali iyili\u011fe k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck etmi\u015fse, bunu da anlay\u0131p kabullenmeniz gerekir. Ne kadar ac\u0131 da olsa, bunu yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Aksi takdirde kendi kendinizi su\u00e7laya su\u00e7laya bunal\u0131ma girersiniz. Belki bir g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fczden olursunuz ama, hi\u00e7 de\u011filse hayat\u0131n\u0131zdan olmazs\u0131n\u0131z. Zarar\u0131n neresinden d\u00f6n\u00fcl\u00fcrse k\u00e2rd\u0131r.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Alma Mazlumun Ah\u0131n\u0131, \u00c7\u0131kar Aheste Aheste! (Aral\u0131k 2003)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlilikte d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fck \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir dostlar\u0131m. E\u011fer sorunlar\u0131n\u0131z varsa bunlar\u0131 oturup, konu\u015fup, gerekirse tart\u0131\u015farak ama mutlaka \u00e7\u00f6zmeniz gerekir. Bakt\u0131n\u0131z fikir farkl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131 o kadar \u00e7ok, \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulam\u0131yorsunuz ve hatta yollar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ay\u0131rmay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsunuz, o halde bunu korkmadan \u00e7ekinmeden e\u015finize s\u00f6yleyin. S\u00f6yleyin ki, o da bo\u015fu bo\u015funa umutlara ve pembe hayallere dalmas\u0131n. Ona yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z en b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck ondan ayr\u0131lmak de\u011fildir: onu aldat\u0131p, hisleriyle ve gururuyla oynamakt\u0131r. Bu yetkiyi de hi\u00e7 kimse size vermemi\u015ftir. Bunu da kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00fcpe edin. E\u011fer t\u00fcm bunlara ra\u011fmen ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n dikine giderseniz, bir g\u00fcn ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 fena \u00e7ekersiniz: Alma Mazlumun Ah\u0131n\u0131, \u00c7\u0131kar Aheste Aheste!<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Haydan Gelen, Huya Gider (\u015eubat 2004)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d6nemli olan paray\u0131 helal kazan\u0131p, helal yollarda harcamay\u0131 bilmektir. Yetimin, yoksulun ve devletin mal\u0131na g\u00f6z dikerek elde etti\u011finiz paralar\u0131n ne size ne de z\u00fcrriyetinize bir faydas\u0131 dokunacakt\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n; Haram\u0131n temeli olmaz. Paray\u0131 kazanmak, harcamaktan zordur ama bir o kadarda \u00f6nemlidir. Paray\u0131 herkes harcayabilir, ama herkes kazanamaz. Hele de helal para kazanmak her yi\u011fidin harc\u0131 de\u011fildir. Paran\u0131z yetersiz gelmeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda do\u011fru yoldan ayr\u0131lmay\u0131n. Ne kendinizi ne de sevdiklerinizi zor durumlarda b\u0131rakmay\u0131n. Unutmay\u0131n; Bo\u011faz\u0131n\u0131zdan ge\u00e7en her haram lokma do\u011frudan kendinize ve ailenize yans\u0131yacakt\u0131r. Ya ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za bir felaket gelecektir, ya da ipsiz saps\u0131z evlatlara sahip olacaks\u0131n\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">G\u00fczele K\u0131rk G\u00fcnde Doyulur, \u0130yi Huyluya K\u0131rk Y\u0131lda Doyulmaz (May\u0131s 2004)<\/h2><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"525\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile1-840.webp\" alt=\"Dergideki y\u00fcz ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-366\" style=\"width:400px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile1-840.webp 840w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile1-350.webp 350w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile1.webp 1586w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\">Yapay zek\u00e2 destekli temizleme \u00b7 Orijinal sayfa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Estetik \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir, bunu kimse inkar edemez. Hatta devrimizde o kadar \u00f6nemli oldu ki, insanlar her \u015feyin sadece d\u0131\u015f\u0131na bakar oldular. Ticarette \u00e7ok kullan\u0131lan bir s\u00f6z vard\u0131r: &#039;boyala, cilala, istedi\u011fine kakala.&#039; Aman ha siz siz olun, bir g\u00fczel g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fczde i\u00e7 g\u00fczelli\u011fini de g\u00f6rmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. G\u00fczel bir \u015fey al\u0131rken, i\u00e7eri\u011fini de ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n. Eski bir laf vard\u0131r &#039;Karaman\u0131n koyunu, sonra \u00e7\u0131kar oyunu&#039; diye. Umar\u0131m Karaman&#039;l\u0131 dostlar\u0131m beni yanl\u0131\u015f anlamazlar. Baz\u0131 g\u00fczel \u015feylerin zorluklar\u0131 sonra ortaya \u00e7\u0131kar. Se\u00e7imlerinizi yaparken daha dikkatli olun, gerisini Takdiri \u0130lahi&#039;ye b\u0131rak\u0131n. Art\u0131 y\u00f6nlerinizle de pek fazla \u00f6v\u00fcnmeyin: hepsi gelip ge\u00e7icidir. Unutmay\u0131n: g\u00fczelli\u011fi de, para pulu da veren Allah&#039;t\u0131r. Bir bakars\u0131n\u0131z sizi imtihan etmek i\u00e7in verdiklerini geri al\u0131r. Elinizdekilere veya elde ettiklerinize fazla ba\u011flan\u0131p g\u00fcvenmeyin. Bu d\u00fcnyan\u0131n garantisi yoktur, kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00fcpe edin.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Can\u0131n\u0131 Al, Paras\u0131n\u0131 Alma (Eyl\u00fcl 2004)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat b\u00f6yledir i\u015fte dostlar\u0131m. E\u011fer insanlara kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131ks\u0131z yard\u0131m ederseniz, en iyi insan siz olursunuz. Ama yok, benim de bir yuvam var, bu \u00e7ark\u0131n d\u00f6nmesi laz\u0131m der, para isterseniz, i\u015fte o zaman vay halinize&#8230; D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en k\u00f6t\u00fc ve para d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn\u00fc insan\u0131 siz olursunuz! Siz muhta\u00e7 olan insanlardan yard\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 eksik etmeyin, ama s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131zdan ge\u00e7inmek isteyen insanlara da dur demesini bilin. Ve kesinliklede dostluklar\u0131n\u0131zla, ticaretinizi ayr\u0131 tutun. \u0130yi bir dost zaten ticarette, seyahatte ve emanette belli olur. Size ticarette yamuk yapan birisi sizin dostunuz de\u011fildir.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kiminin Paras\u0131, Kiminin Duas\u0131 (Ekim 2004)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siz paraya taparcas\u0131na hayatla m\u00fccadele etmeyin. Kariyer sahibi olmak, ilim \u00f6\u011frenmek ve ilerlemek i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele edin, ama asla para i\u00e7in yapmay\u0131n her \u015feyi. Sayd\u0131klar\u0131m i\u00e7in m\u00fccadele verirseniz, para zaten kendili\u011finden gelir. (&#8230;) Birilerine faydal\u0131 olurken de, illa sa\u011fa sola para da\u011f\u0131taca\u011f\u0131m anlam\u0131na gelmez. Ba\u015f\u0131 dara gelen bir dostunuzu can\u0131 g\u00f6n\u00fclden dinleyip, onu rahatlatmak bile bazen parayla sat\u0131n al\u0131namayacak kadar g\u00fczel sonu\u00e7lar getirir. (&#8230;) Dostlar\u0131m, neyi nas\u0131l yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sizler \u00e7ok iyi bilirsiniz, ama yinede benim burada s\u00f6ylediklerimi yabana atmay\u0131n. Hep iyinin ve iyiliklerin pe\u015finde ko\u015fun. Paran\u0131z varsa, muhta\u00e7 olanlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olun, e\u011fer yoksa, eme\u011finizle, dostlu\u011funuzla insanlara yard\u0131mc\u0131 olun.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">E\u015fek At Olmaz, Ci\u011fer Et Olmaz (Kas\u0131m 2004)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0130nsanlar\u0131n d\u00fczelmesi i\u00e7in \u00e7aba sarf edip beklemek iyidir. Ama baz\u0131 insanlar vard\u0131r ki, e\u015fek gelmi\u015ftir, e\u015fek giderler. Siz s\u0131rt\u0131na alt\u0131n semer de vursan\u0131z, onlar yine e\u015fek kal\u0131rlar. Onun i\u00e7in iyi niyetinizi ve merhametinizi lay\u0131k olan insanlara kullan\u0131n. E\u011fer bir insan her \u015feyden \u00f6nce kendisine d\u00fcr\u00fcst davranm\u0131yor ve kendi yalanlar\u0131na kendisi dahi inan\u0131yorsa, ondan uzakla\u015f\u0131n. O, nefsine dostluk eden ve cehenneme yolculu\u011fa \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olan birisidir. B\u0131rak\u0131n kendi haline, gitti\u011fi yere kadar gitsin. Siz de de\u011ferinizi bilen ve her \u015feyden \u00f6nemlisi size d\u00fcr\u00fcst olan birisini bulup, hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 zehir etmekten kurtar\u0131n.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">E\u015fek Ho\u015faftan Ne Anlar? (Aral\u0131k 2004)<\/h2><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"560\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile2-840.webp\" alt=\"Dergideki y\u00fcz ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-367\" style=\"width:400px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile2-840.webp 840w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile2-350.webp 350w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2005-102-profile2.webp 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\">Yapay zek\u00e2 destekli temizleme \u00b7 Orijinal sayfa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dostlar\u0131m, e\u011fer birisi size de\u011fer veriyor ve kay\u0131ts\u0131z \u015farts\u0131z sizi seviyorsa ona kenetlenin. Ger\u00e7ek sevgiyi ve sevgisi i\u00e7in sonsuz fedakarl\u0131k yapan birisi her zaman kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kmaz. \u00c7\u0131k\u0131nca da aya\u011f\u0131n\u0131za gelen nimeti tepmeyin. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi; para pul, \u015fan \u015f\u00f6hret veya boy posla elde edilmez. Ger\u00e7ek sevgi y\u00fcrektendir. E\u011fer birisine \u00e7ok de\u011fer verdiyseniz ve O da bunu g\u00f6rm\u00fcyorsa, kafan\u0131za takmay\u0131n. O sizin de\u011ferinizi bilmiyor demektir, \u00fcst\u00fcnden ge\u00e7in gidin. O&#039;nu kafan\u0131za takmaya ve uykular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rmaya bile de\u011fmez.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A\u011fa\u00e7 Ya\u015fken E\u011filir (Ocak 2005)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011fi andan itibaren ona olan ilginizi hi\u00e7 bir zaman \u00fczerinden eksik etmeyin. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz ilk d\u00f6rt y\u0131l i\u00e7erisinde sizden g\u00f6rd\u00fckleri ve duyduklar\u0131yla ileriki hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u015fekillendirecektir. Ona ne kadar \u00e7ok g\u00fczel \u015feyler verebilirseniz, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun manevi geli\u015fimi o kadar olumlu olacakt\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n, \u00e7ocuk bir &#039;fotokopi&#039; makinesidir. Her \u015feyi kapar. Uygulay\u0131p, uygulamamak ona kalm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r, ama mutlaka her \u015fey haf\u0131zas\u0131na kaz\u0131nacakt\u0131r. Bu sebeple ne kadar stresli olursan\u0131z olun \u00e7ocu\u011funuza asla ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131p \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmay\u0131n. Disiplin verin ama, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak. \u00c7ocuk merakl\u0131d\u0131r, ke\u015ffetmeyi sever. Evi da\u011f\u0131tacak diye her \u015feyin \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7meyin. Tehlikeli olan \u015feylerden onu koruyun ama, yeri geldik\u00e7e de ufak tefek \u015feyleri da\u011f\u0131tmas\u0131na ve onlar\u0131 bir anlamda incelemesine izin verin. Ancak oyunu bitti\u011fi zamanda, m\u00fcmk\u00fcn mertebe yerine koymas\u0131n\u0131 ona anlat\u0131n. Ne \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 titiz olun ne de \u00e7ok a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 rahat. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun d\u00fczenli ve tertipli ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olun. Ve bir \u015feyi kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00fcpe edin: ne olursa olsun, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizin kan\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 asla unutmay\u0131n. Ad\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 da ona g\u00f6re at\u0131n. Siz \u00e7ocu\u011funuza gereken e\u011fitimi verin, Allah&#039;a da bol bol dua edin; &#039;\u00e7ocu\u011funuz size ve milletine hay\u0131rl\u0131 bir evlat olsun&#039; diye. Tekrar s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum, \u00e7ocu\u011fu d\u00fcnyaya getirmekle i\u015f bitmiyor, tam tersine as\u0131l i\u015f o zaman ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ben A\u011fa Sen A\u011fa, Bu \u0130ne\u011fi Kim Sa\u011fa? (\u015eubat 2005)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evlilikte olsun, i\u015fte olsun, dostluklarda olsun yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gereken ve ba\u015ftan belirlenmi\u015f veya bilinen \u015feyler vard\u0131r. Bunlar\u0131 kimin yapaca\u011f\u0131 bellidir. E\u011fer bu yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri sorumlu ki\u015filer yapmaz da ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapt\u0131rmak isterse denge bozulur. Siz siz olun, sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131zdan hi\u00e7 bir zaman ka\u00e7may\u0131n ve asla kimsenin \u00fcst\u00fcne y\u0131kmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Kim oldu\u011funuzu ve neler yapman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini hi\u00e7 bir zaman unutmay\u0131n.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Kasap Et Derdinde, Koyun Can Derdinde (Nisan 2005)<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hayat b\u00f6yledir i\u015fte. Birileri kendi derdindeyken, ba\u015fkalar\u0131 da kendi dertlerini \u00e7\u00f6zmekle u\u011fra\u015f\u0131r. Birisi can\u0131yla m\u00fccadele eder, di\u011feri ise paras\u0131yla. D\u00fcnya yalan d\u00fcnya demi\u015fler. Kimin ne zaman \u00f6lece\u011fi, kimin ba\u015f\u0131na ne zaman bir \u015feyler gelece\u011fi belli olmaz. Siz g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc her zaman d\u00f6rt a\u00e7\u0131n. Birisinin ba\u015f\u0131na bir \u015fey geldi\u011finde, bana gelmez diye kendinizi garanti alt\u0131na almay\u0131n. Hayat\u0131n garantisi yoktur. Kendinize ve sevdiklerinize iyi bak\u0131n.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Orijinal bask\u0131<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 sayfalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcn h\u00e2liyle incelemek i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rsellere t\u0131klay\u0131n. A\u00e7\u0131lan y\u00fcksek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fckl\u00fc g\u00f6rseli cihaz\u0131n\u0131za kaydedebilirsiniz.<\/p><div class=\"wp-block-group is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ced902a9 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\"><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Kapak.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Kapak-300.webp\" alt=\"Ekin Dergisi \u2014 Kapak\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Kapak.png\">Kapak<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_01-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 63\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 63<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_02-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 64\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 64<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_03-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 65\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2005\/2005-06-Ekin_102-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 65<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><\/div><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=139\">\u2190 T\u00fcm Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131lar\u0131na d\u00f6n<\/a><\/p><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u2190 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 T\u00fcm say\u0131lar Haziran 2005 \u00b7 Ekin Dergisi \u00b7 Say\u0131 102 \u00b7 Sayfa 63\u201365 Bu tarih\u00ee metin, bas\u0131l\u0131 sayfalardan okunabilir bi\u00e7imde aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00f6nemin anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri korunmu\u015f, tekrar eden dergi duyurular\u0131 aktar\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Orijinal sayfalar a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dad\u0131r. Anlayacak Olan Anlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 Anlayaca\u011f\u0131 Kadar Anlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r Yazan: Emin \u00d6zel \u00dc\u00e7 y\u0131l\u0131 geride b\u0131rakt\u0131m. Ekin Dergisi arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla o [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":139,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"dert-ortagi-uitgave","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-371","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=371"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/371\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":375,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/371\/revisions\/375"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/139"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}