{"id":198,"date":"2026-11-03T17:04:13","date_gmt":"2026-11-03T17:04:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=198"},"modified":"2026-11-11T08:44:11","modified_gmt":"2026-11-11T08:44:11","slug":"dert-ortagi-2003-01","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=198","title":{"rendered":"G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz Da\u011flara Kar Ya\u011fd\u0131&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<aside class=\"ea-period-note\"><strong>Tarihsel ba\u011flam \u00b7 Ocak 2003<\/strong><p>Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okurken d\u00f6nemin dilini ve toplumsal ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmak gerekir. O y\u0131llarda kimi \u00e7evrelerde yayg\u0131n ya da kabul g\u00f6ren baz\u0131 tutumlara bug\u00fcn farkl\u0131 bak\u0131labilir. O zaman da bu konularda herkes ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyordu.<\/p><\/aside>\n<div class=\"wp-block-group has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-32efe032 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=139\">\u2190 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 T\u00fcm say\u0131lar<\/a><\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Ocak 2003<\/strong> \u00b7 Ekin Dergisi \u00b7 Say\u0131 77 \u00b7 Sayfa 85\u201387<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Bu tarih\u00ee metin, bas\u0131l\u0131 sayfalardan okunabilir bi\u00e7imde aktar\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. D\u00f6nemin anlat\u0131m\u0131 ve g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri korunmu\u015f, tekrar eden dergi duyurular\u0131 aktar\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Orijinal sayfalar a\u015fa\u011f\u0131dad\u0131r.<\/em><\/p><h1 class=\"wp-block-heading has-xx-large-font-size\">G\u00fcvendi\u011finiz Da\u011flara Kar Ya\u011fd\u0131&#8230;<\/h1><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yazan: Emin \u00d6zel<\/strong><\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"1117\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-840.webp\" alt=\"EminAbi \u2014 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 yazar\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-161\" style=\"width:180px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-840.webp 840w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-350.webp 350w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-portrait-hersteld.webp 1087w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\">EminAbi \u00b7 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u00b7 Orijinal sayfa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7ok seviyordunuz hay\u0131rs\u0131z\u0131. O kadar \u00e7\u00c7ok seviyordunuz ki, her \u015feyinizi onunla payla\u015f\u0131yordunuz.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Her derdinize deva olan ki\u015fi oydu \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc. Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n her a\u011fr\u0131mas\u0131nda ko\u015farak ona s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131yordunuz. Ve, bir k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuk misali ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kuca\u011f\u0131na koyup saatlerce sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131zla ok\u015famas\u0131n\u0131 istiyordunuz. \u00c7\u00c7ok seviyordunuz onu. \u00c7\u0131lg\u0131nlarca. E\u015fsiz bucaks\u0131z bir sevgiydi sizinki. Ama zaman ilerledik\u00e7e sanki birbirinize birer yabanc\u0131 olmaya ba\u015flad\u0131n\u0131z. Ko\u015fup gidince yan\u0131na sizi art\u0131k ok\u015famaz oldu. S\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sizden esirgemeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Ve anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131k anlam\u0131yor gibi oldu.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Neyin nesidir bu? Yoksa sizden ba\u015fka birisi mi var acaba?<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ku\u015fkular\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015flar. Hatta onu g\u00f6zetlemeye ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z. Belkide takip edersiniz. Ama g\u00f6zle g\u00f6r\u00fcnen bir\u015fey bulamazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u0131k\u00e7a sizi sevdi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemesine ihtiya\u00e7 duyars\u0131n\u0131z. Eskisinden \u00e7ok daha fazla. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc endi\u015felerinizi s\u00fcrekli gidermeniz gerekiyordur. Ama O size \u201cseni seviyorum\u201d derken bile, o eski s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir t\u00fcrl\u00fc hissedemez olursunuz. Bu beni ger\u00e7ekten sevmiyor diye bir \u015f\u00fcphe d\u00fc\u015fer i\u00e7inize.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla siz de ona kar\u015f\u0131 so\u011fuk davranmaya ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z, derken aran\u0131zdaki mesafe iyice a\u00e7\u0131l\u0131r. Ayr\u0131lmaya kadar var\u0131r belkide. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z o g\u00fczel anlar, y\u00fcrekten gelen saf ve temiz duygular kaybolur. Siz de hayat\u0131n oyununa gelirsiniz.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Filmin sonu gelmi\u015ftir art\u0131k. Ama&#8230;<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">O kadar hassas davranaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z yere, biraz daha tarafs\u0131z ve so\u011fukkanl\u0131 davransayd\u0131n\u0131z, belkide farkl\u0131 sonu\u00e7lar elde edecektiniz.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maalesef insanlar\u0131n ve \u00f6zellikle toplumumuzdaki insanlar\u0131n sahip olduklar\u0131 yap\u0131dan dolay\u0131 her g\u00fcn y\u00fczlerce belkide binlerce insan \u201cmutsuz\u201d kategorisine ekleniyor.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bizler \u00f6nce noksan\u0131 ve hatay\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131 tarafta arar\u0131z. \u00d6nce kar\u015f\u0131 taraf\u0131 ele\u015ftiririz ve m\u00fcmk\u00fcnse su\u00e7u da ona veririz. Hatay\u0131 asla kabul etmeyiz. Gurur meselesi yapar\u0131z her\u015feyi. G\u00f6zler sadece \u00e7evreyi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc i\u00e7in, zahmete girip de bir ayna al\u0131p kendimize bakmay\u0131z. Biz b\u00f6yleyiz i\u015fte.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Arada s\u0131rada aynan\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131na ge\u00e7ip kendinize bakmaya ne dersiniz? Kolay gelsin, EminAbi Dert Orta\u011f\u0131<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Babas\u0131z \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek zor mu? \u2014 Yabang\u00fcl\u00fc<\/h2><figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"840\" height=\"744\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2003-jan-vrouw-840.webp\" alt=\"Dergide kullan\u0131lan kad\u0131n y\u00fcz\u00fc ayr\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131\" class=\"wp-image-190\" style=\"width:320px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2003-jan-vrouw-840.webp 840w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2003-jan-vrouw-350.webp 350w, https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/illustraties\/dert-ortagi-2003-jan-vrouw.webp 1333w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\">Dergideki g\u00f6rselin temizlenmi\u015f kopyas\u0131 \u00b7 Orijinal sayfa<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ben 19 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir ayl\u0131k bebe\u011fi olan gen\u00e7 bir anneyim. E\u015fimle anla\u015famad\u0131m ve ayr\u0131ld\u0131k. Daha do\u011frusu onu terk ettim. \u015eu an ailemle birlikte ya\u015f\u0131yorum ama bebe\u011fime gereken ilgi ve sevgiyi g\u00f6steremiyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcm okulda ge\u00e7iyor. Beynimi kemiren \u015fu soruya cevap bulamad\u0131m. Babas\u0131z \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek zor mu ger\u00e7ekten? Baba sevgisinden mahrum bir \u00e7ocuk nas\u0131l b\u00fcy\u00fcr acaba? \u00c7ocu\u011fum b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde beni su\u00e7lar m\u0131? \u00c7ocu\u011fumu e\u015fime g\u00f6stermiyorum. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o hi\u00e7 bir \u015feyi haketmiyor. Bu konu hakk\u0131nda kendi g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinizi \u00f6ne s\u00fcr\u00fcp beni<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[Ar\u015fiv notu: Mektup, \u00f6zg\u00fcn bas\u0131l\u0131 dergide bir bask\u0131 hatas\u0131 nedeniyle bu s\u00f6zc\u00fckle yar\u0131m kalmaktad\u0131r. Eksik devam\u0131 tamamlanmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.]<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Dilo\u015f \u2014 Almanya<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet l\u00fcminesans arkada\u015fa kat\u0131l\u0131yorum. \u00c7ocu\u011fun babas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeli. Ne kadar anne sevgisine ihtiyac\u0131 varsa, baba sevgisine de o kadar ihtiyac\u0131 vard\u0131r. Siz anla\u015famam\u0131\u015f olabilirsiniz, fakat l\u00fctfen bebe\u011finize babas\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131ma f\u0131rsat\u0131n\u0131 verin&#8230;<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Utopik (Site Y\u00f6neticisi) \u2014 T\u00fcrkiye<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Merhaba,<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Babas\u0131z \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek zor ama imkans\u0131z de\u011fil. Siz ve aileniz ona bu yoksunlu\u011fu en az hissettirecek \u015fekilde davranabilirsiniz. Ancak ona yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z a\u00e7\u0131klamalar mutlaka onun anlayabilece\u011fi kadar basit olmal\u0131. Kesinlikle babas\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fclememelisiniz. K\u00f6t\u00fc bile olsa. Bir de di\u011fer arkada\u015flara kat\u0131l\u0131yorum, \u00e7ocuk mutlaka babas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeli. E\u011fer k\u00f6t\u00fc ise o zaten bunu anlayacakt\u0131r. Unutmay\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar d\u00fcz mant\u0131kla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Karma\u015f\u0131k, fesat d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri, laf cambazl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlamazlar. Ona ger\u00e7e\u011fi onun dilinde anlat\u0131n l\u00fctfen.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Misafir<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Evet&#8230; \u00c7ocuk mutlaka babas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rmeli. \u0130leride bunun hesab\u0131n\u0131 sorar yoksa size.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fakat tabi belli bir ya\u015ftan sonra zaten kimle ili\u015fki kurmak istedi\u011fine kendisi karar verecektir&#8230; E\u011fer \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu tek ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za yeti\u015ftirme sorumlulu\u011funu alacaksan\u0131z, mutlaka \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu iki kat fedakar olman\u0131z gerekti\u011fini unutmay\u0131n.. Yani hem annelik, hem de babal\u0131k yapacaks\u0131n\u0131z!<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">L\u00fcminesans \u2014 Danimarka<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Selam,<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sorular\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fti\u011fi ortam ve yeti\u015ftiren ki\u015filerin becerileri ile ilgili. Yeti\u015ftirdiklerimize damgam\u0131z\u0131 vuruyoruz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc, ondand\u0131r damga kalitesi \u00f6nemli.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Yaln\u0131z &quot;babas\u0131na g\u00f6stermiyorum&quot; d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceni bir kez daha g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7ir istersen, buna hakk\u0131n var m\u0131 yok mu bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn!<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sevgimle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Aleyna (Forum Y\u00f6neticisi) \u2014 Hollanda<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Merhaba arkada\u015f\u0131m, Bu konuda ben de g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm\u00fc bildirmeden edemedim&#8230; Kendimi bir an senin yerine koyup b\u00f6yle bir durumda nas\u0131l davranaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm&#8230; Duygular\u0131n\u0131n ve mant\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n kolayca \u00e7eli\u015fkiye d\u00fc\u015fece\u011fi bir durumda ve ya\u015ftas\u0131n, bu y\u00fczden verdi\u011fin kararlarda emin olmal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230; Bu kararlar sana ve \u00e7ocu\u011funa yaln\u0131z \u015fu an de\u011fil, gelecekte de huzuru sa\u011flayabilmeli&#8230; Bir gen\u00e7 bayan olarak duygular\u0131n\u0131n a\u011f\u0131r bast\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayabiliyorum ama ayn\u0131 zamanda da bir annesin, sorumluluklar\u0131n art\u0131k iki kat daha fazla. Bu sebepten duruma daha da mant\u0131kl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde bakman\u0131 tavsiye ediyorum sana can\u0131m. &#039;Bebe\u011fini g\u00f6rmeyi haketmiyor&#039; \u015feklinde bir s\u00f6z okudum. Ne olursa olsun o bir baba ve \u00e7ocu\u011fu \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 var elbette&#8230; Belki k\u0131zg\u0131ns\u0131n ona kar\u015f\u0131, ama bu konuda kendi k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, duygular\u0131n\u0131 katmamal\u0131, onun bu haktan yararlanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131s\u0131n&#8230; Sen bir annesin!<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">EminAbi\u2019den \u201cSanal Hizmet\u201d!<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">EminAbi yakla\u015f\u0131k iki y\u0131ld\u0131r internette insanlar\u0131n dertlerine derman olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bundan sonra da sa\u011fl\u0131k ile alakal\u0131 t\u00fcm soru ve sorunlar\u0131na \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015facak. Aral\u0131k 2002 itibariyle \u201cSanal Doktor\u201d ad\u0131nda bir k\u00f6\u015fe a\u00e7\u0131larak, insanlar\u0131n \u00fccretsiz ve gerekirse anonim kalarak sa\u011fl\u0131k ile alakal\u0131 t\u00fcm sorular\u0131n\u0131 sorma imkan\u0131 geli\u015ftirilmi\u015ftir. Sorular\u0131 cevapland\u0131ranlar T\u00fcrkiye&#039;de \u00f6nde gelen hastanelerde g\u00f6rev yapan ve site i\u00e7in g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan tecr\u00fcbeli doktorlard\u0131r. Bunun yan\u0131s\u0131ra bir de \u201cBilgisayar Teknik Destek\u201d k\u00f6\u015fesi faaliyete ge\u00e7irilmi\u015ftir. Bilgisayar\u0131yla sorun ya\u015fayan veya merak etti\u011fi konular\u0131 olan herkes, siteye mesaj g\u00f6ndererek sorular\u0131na cevap alabiliyorlar. Buradaki g\u00f6revliler de, Bilgi \u0130\u015flem e\u011fitimi g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015flerinin yan\u0131s\u0131ra g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olarak site&#039;de g\u00f6rev yapan \u015fah\u0131slard\u0131r. Ayr\u0131ca bu yaz\u0131n\u0131n yaz\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131ralarda Sanal Doktor ve Bilgisayar Teknik Destek hizmetinin yan\u0131s\u0131ra, \u201cSanal Avukat\u201d ve \u201cSanal Psikolog\u201d \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131 s\u00fcrmekteydi.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Son Bir Ay \u0130\u00e7erisinde En \u00c7ok \u0130lgi G\u00f6ren 10 Konu Ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[Ar\u015fiv notu: A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki liste Ocak 2003 say\u0131s\u0131nda yer alan tarih\u00ee listedir.]<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">1 &#8211; \u0130tiraflar \u2014 Herkes s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 burada birbiriyle payla\u015f\u0131yor. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00fcl\u00fcnecek, baz\u0131lar\u0131 ise hayret edilecek \u015fekilde&#8230;<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">2 &#8211; Hollanda&#039;da okumak istiyorum! \u2014 Okumak i\u00e7in kendini yiyip bitiren ama illa da Hollanda&#039;da okumak istiyorum diyen bir gencin \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">3 &#8211; Evliyim ama yaln\u0131z\u0131m! \u2014 Kocas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan insan yerine konmayan, ilgisizlik ve peri\u015fanl\u0131k i\u00e7erisinde ya\u015fam m\u00fccadelesi veren gen\u00e7 bir bayan\u0131n dram\u0131.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">4 &#8211; \u00d6lmek istiyorum! \u2014 Ailesi taraf\u0131ndan bask\u0131yla evlendirilen, 24 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir erke\u011fin hikayesi. Mutsuz ve evlilik d\u0131\u015f\u0131 yeni bir ili\u015fkinin pe\u015finde&#8230;<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">5 &#8211; Yasak a\u015fk \u2014 Haberi olmadan evli bir erke\u011fe a\u015f\u0131k olup, \u00f6\u011frendikten sonra erke\u011fi bu ili\u015fkiden vazge\u00e7irebilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7aba sarfeden gen\u00e7 bir bayan\u0131n m\u00fccadelesi.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">6 &#8211; Baz\u0131 nank\u00f6r kad\u0131nlar \u2014 Kad\u0131nlardan a\u011fz\u0131 yanan, bekar bir erke\u011fin (baz\u0131) kad\u0131nlar hakk\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri ve ele\u015ftirileri&#8230;<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">7 &#8211; \u00dc\u00e7 kad\u0131na a\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131m \u2014 40 Ya\u015f\u0131nda evli bir erke\u011fin, evlili\u011fi d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki iki ayr\u0131 sevgilisi ile olan maceralar\u0131 ve itiraflar\u0131. \u201cHerkes birini idare edemezken, ben \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcn\u00fc birden idare ediyorum\u201d diyor.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">8 &#8211; A\u015fk nedir Allah a\u015fk\u0131na? \u2014 A\u015fk\u0131n tam olarak ne oldu\u011funu sorgulayan, ele\u015ftiren ve tart\u0131\u015fan bir erke\u011fin konusu. \u201cGer\u00e7ek A\u015fk\u201d televizyonlarda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz sanat\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u015fk m\u0131, yoksa &#039;kutsal&#039; bir duygu mudur\u201d deniyor.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">9 &#8211; Severek ayr\u0131lmak \u2014 Severek ayr\u0131lmak nedir, ne de\u011fildir. Sevenler ayr\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131? B\u00f6yle bir \u015fey do\u011fru mudur? Sevip de ayr\u0131lanlar\u0131n tart\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir konu.<\/p><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">10 &#8211; Zorday\u0131m \u2014 Evlenip gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta ayr\u0131lmak zorunda kal\u0131p, dul halinden utanan bir bayan\u0131n ya\u015fam dram\u0131.<\/p><h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Orijinal bask\u0131<\/h2><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 sayfalar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6zg\u00fcn h\u00e2liyle incelemek i\u00e7in k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rsellere t\u0131klay\u0131n. A\u00e7\u0131lan y\u00fcksek \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fckl\u00fc g\u00f6rseli cihaz\u0131n\u0131za kaydedebilirsiniz.<\/p><div class=\"wp-block-group is-content-justification-left is-layout-flex wp-container-core-group-is-layout-ced902a9 wp-block-group-is-layout-flex\"><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Kapak.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Kapak-300.webp\" alt=\"Ekin Dergisi \u2014 Kapak\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Kapak.png\">Kapak<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_01-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 85\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_01.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 85<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_03-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 86\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_03.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 86<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><div class=\"wp-block-group wp-container-content-1387b69e has-global-padding is-layout-constrained wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_02-300.webp\" alt=\"Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 87\"\/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/wp-content\/uploads\/dert-ortagi\/2003\/2003-01-Ekin_77-Dert_Ortagi_02.png\">Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 Sayfa 87<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div><\/div><p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/?page_id=139\">\u2190 T\u00fcm Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 yaz\u0131lar\u0131na d\u00f6n<\/a><\/p><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tarihsel ba\u011flam \u00b7 Ocak 2003 Bu yaz\u0131y\u0131 okurken d\u00f6nemin dilini ve toplumsal ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmak gerekir. O y\u0131llarda kimi \u00e7evrelerde yayg\u0131n ya da kabul g\u00f6ren baz\u0131 tutumlara bug\u00fcn farkl\u0131 bak\u0131labilir. O zaman da bu konularda herkes ayn\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyordu. \u2190 Dert Orta\u011f\u0131 \u2014 T\u00fcm say\u0131lar Ocak 2003 \u00b7 Ekin Dergisi \u00b7 Say\u0131 77 \u00b7 Sayfa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":139,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"dert-ortagi-uitgave","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-198","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/198","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=198"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/198\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":771,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/198\/revisions\/771"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/139"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/eminabi.com\/guncel\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=198"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}